Here's what to do if you have to skip a party

A low stakes hot take that’s relevant this time of year

It’s happened to the best of us. We RSVP to something and then can no longer attend. Attrition is real. We overcommit, come down with colds, or sometimes just have the kind of day where the original plan cannot happen.

I’ve thrown lots of parties, happy hours and other events. It’s always a slightly nerve wracking experience, especially in the hours right before. You scramble to clean the apartment, pick up a cake, run out for ice, pick out your outfit. You know what kills the vibe in those hours?