Hi friends,
This week’s newsletter accidentally only went to paid subscribers (I unlocked it so you can read it below) but it left me feeling like I needed to say hi!
I took today off with the aim of listening to the new Taylor Swift album (was not expecting a 2+ hour double album) and doing whatever I felt like. Unfortunately, I have a cough that won’t go away so I don’t feel like doing much. Still, it feels good to sit on the couch at noon on a Friday, listening, relistening, and reading reviews and tweets about an artist I’ve been following since 2006.
Soon, I’m going to take a walk to the library and pick up some lunch and then I need to do some passover shopping—I’m making a big batch of this for my family seder on Monday and my oven only fits one sheet pan at a time so it’s quite a production. I’m planning to keep Passover this year for as long as it serves me
I’m curious about your favorite ways to use a random day off. One of my New Year’s goals was to take more time off not related to other people’s milestones. Today is a milestone for Taylor, sure, but it’s also something nice for me and I want to take a few more days like this, in addition to the usual event related travel. I also have a trip planned for next month where I’m not even bringing my laptop (a first?). Hopefully next time I take a random day off, I’m feeling a little better, but I’m reminding myself that having a day to rest is a gift too.
Friday reads
Frida went to the WNBA draft! I really want to go to a game this season!
talked with about gathering, a delight!Do you identify as a morning person? Loved this essay from
I’m not a morning person but I do wake up earlyish (between 7 and 7:30, I don’t think actual morning people consider this early) so I can have some time to not rush in the morning. When I was freelancing and working from home, I liked to wake up around 8 and work till 6ish. Things evolve but I don’t think being a morning person is the only way to design a day that feels good to you.I’m leaving the comments open here so sound off on Taylor’s album, your favorite ways to spend a day off and what you’re cooking for Passover. Have a great weekend!
xo, Abigail
okay will start with some TS thoughts: this album is long and I need a lot of time with it! I am surprised to see so much about a short relationship versus a long one buttt midnights and lover had lots of Joe anxiety and sometimes the short ones hurt (hello, All Too Well). I am a pop girly so it's not in my top 3 at the moment but I will be listening more and love a lot of what I've heard.
On a day off, I like some iced coffee or a diner trip, a brief outing into nature with my wife, reading for fun, a nap, and an easy dinner. The diner-nature combo is really top notch.